Relationships

Your relationships with everything in your life are based on your perceptions of
Who you are and What you think you deserve.

SAFTEY VS. DESERVABILITY – A BIG ISSUES IN LIFE
We make up rules and beliefs for our lives based on the need to be safe & based our core belief of WHO we think we are.

BUT WHO ARE YOU, REALLY?

YOUR EGO IS INTERPRETING YOUR EXPEREINCES. ( MYSELF )
YOU ARE THE ONE HAVING THEM. ( I )

When you get confused & think that you are your interpretations of your experiences, [your behaviors] you may start to feel emotional pain. i.e. depression, anxiety. The Experiences you have are real, your interpretations are not – They are based on what you believe to be true about yourself.
This is where the real work begins: TRUST, FAITH, BELIEVE. When you Believe something, you are determining it to be. You are saying, “Nothing but this is going to happen.” Faith can move mountains.

1. First you must believe in your deservability.
• This is continuously undermined when we think we are our behaviors.

2. We must trust the ( I ). Trust that you, the one who is experiencing, is leading yourself to your greatest joy [if you just let it].

3. Trust and be open to change, don’t resist.

4. Don’t worry about knowing the path or the answers – go with what feels good!

5. Stay in balance. When you ask for something that you are not, you are saying, ‘I’m undeserving.’ When you ask for something that you are, and except something less, you are saying, ‘I’m not good enough.’

REMEMBER YOUR RESPONSIBLY FOR DETERMINING YOUR VALUE IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS. WHAT ARE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS TELLING YOU YOUR WORTH?

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